
You love your baby - yet some days leave you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected and isolated. You find yourself asking, “Why does this transition to motherhood feel so much harder than I expected?”
Your postpartum nervous system is stretched thin, making it difficult to express and manage the complex emotions that come with this new chapter.
You long for calm, reliable tools to help you navigate the emotional waves of early motherhood with steadiness and resilience.




Discover The Care and Compassion Method™. A clear step-by-step matrescence framework to soothe your stress and gently regulate your postpartum nervous system.
Practice gentle, evidence-based tools. So that you can manage tricky feelings and navigate motherhood with greater balance and ease.
Experience greater calm, confidence and compassion. Supporting you every day as you embrace your unique matrescence journey.
Connect with other mums who get it. So that you feel seen, supported and less alone during this life-changing transition.



→ Bite-sized, practical sessions released gradually, so you can learn and practice at your own pace without feeling overwhelmed or rushed.

→ Handy quick-reference guides for life on-the-go, including reflective workbooks and calming meditation audios to support you anytime.

→ Pause, play and revisit the program whenever you need ongoing matrescence support - flexibility designed for your busy life.

→ Live group online Connection Calls with The Postpartum Psychologist for guidance and extra community support.
"The content was brilliant"
“I found The Toolkit so helpful in guiding me on my Matrescence journey. The support and care from the group was invaluable and the content was brilliant, helping me to discover so many wise points.”

"Calm and hopeful"
"The live Connection Calls help me to feel calm and hopeful."

"It really helped me in those early months"
"Thank you for this amazing part of my journey, it really helped me in those early months and is continuing to introduce me to new moments along the way.”

"All mums deserve this care"
"Margy was a kind, supportive guide and there was lovely kinship and solidarity with the other women! All Mums deserve this care postpartum."

"Amazing"
"Amazing. Really enjoying using the tools and I look forward to going though each mini-module. I'm so glad I signed up to it and to be supported though it too."

"I feel seen"

"Very manageable"
"The mini-modules are bite-sized and very manageable to work through".

"It's been really validating and helpful."

"The app makes the content easy to access"
"I'm glad I had the confidence to book onto this. As the newborn fog is lifting I'm finding it very helpful, especially the mindfulness exercises. The app makes the content easy to access."

"Great to reach out to a group of like minded mums"
"Very helpful. Great to reach out to a group of like minded mums who I could lean on for support, share experiences. Amazing to be able to do this online.

"A safe space to be heard."
"It's been very enlightening and thought provoking and it was great to have a safe space to be heard and share with other Mums on the journey."

"It’s helped me in many ways and will continue to do so."
"Understanding myself better, understanding the connection to my daughter, navigating an altered relationship with my husband and close family. It’s helped me in many ways and will continue to do so."

"Really supportive and very calming"



The Postnatal Emotional Wellbeing Toolkit™ opens only once a year, with a limited number of spots available.
By joining the VIP priority list, you’ll get exclusive early access - before the program is announced to the wider public.
If this feels like the matrescence support you’ve been searching for, I’d love to welcome you personally.
Welcome! I’m Dr Margy Bowes, a Highly Specialist Clinical Psychologist, certified Motherhood Studies Practitioner and certified Seasons of Matrescence ® Educator and Guide. With over 20 years of experience working in the NHS and public sector, I’ve supported countless people through life’s most challenging transitions. But it was when I became a mother that I truly understood the unique emotional journey women face in early motherhood - an experience known as matrescence. Like many new mums, I struggled with feelings that traditional antenatal and postnatal support didn’t fully address.
That’s why I launched The Postpartum Psychologist - to fill a critical gap in support for mothers navigating this profound transition. Drawing on my professional expertise and my own lived experience with postpartum challenges, I create and deliver online education and support tailored specifically for new mums.
My mission is to empower you with evidence-based tools, compassionate guidance and a deep understanding of matrescence - so you can embrace your motherhood journey with confidence, calm and self-compassion.
Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, isolated or simply curious about what’s happening inside you, know that you’re not alone. Here, you’ll find practical resources designed to help you adjust to your new role and identity, and to support your emotional wellbeing every step of the way. Thank you for trusting me to be part of your motherhood journey.
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